Friday, November 23, 2012

December (Twelfth Month) 2012 Newsletter



December (Twelfth Month)
2012 Newsletter

Meeting for Worship
& First Day School
Sundays at 11:00 a.m.

Midweek Meeting for Worship, Wednesdays at 6:00 p.m. 




The Meeting Community



Meetings for Worship and Business are the center of our spiritual community. There, as we come to know each other in the Spirit, we build the “beloved community.”

 Mutual respect and care in the Meeting form the foundation from which we can test, support, and exercise leadings of the Spirit. At its best, the Meeting community provides a framework for us to learn and practice mutual care, which strengthens us as we act in the world.

 All members of the Meeting community should share in the care of one another. While respecting privacy, we must be aware of and sensitive to each other’s needs. We must also be willing to ask for assistance when we are in need.

Do I strive to be inclusive in my relationships within the Meeting?
Do I care for the reputation of others, refraining from gossip or disparaging remarks?
Am I committed to the difficult work of forgiveness, and affirming God’s love for the whole community?

How are love and unity maintained among us?
Do we practice the art of listening, even beyond words?
How have we been sensitive to the personal needs and difficulties of members and attenders, young and old?
Do we visit one another in our homes and keep in touch with distant members?





Meeting for Business began after a period of worship at 1:00 pm, with 19 people present. Clerk Stephen Matchett opened with a reading from the PYM Faith & Practice Advices & Queries for Eleventh month, on “Peace.”  Friends shared silent and spoken responses.

Approval of Previous Month’s Minutes

11-01: Meeting approves the minutes of October 14, 2012, as presented.

Naming Committee Report
Philip Gerrie, Naming Committee convener, brought the following nominations to serve on the Nominating Committee: Arthur Koch, for a one year term of calendar year 2013; and Kate Frankel, Anne Collins, and David Ackerly, for two-year terms of calendar years 2013 and 2014. There is no nomination for clerk of the committee yet.  These nominations will be held for a month and acted on at the next meeting for business.

Rausch Street Property Progress Report
In response to our minute at last month’s Meeting for Business seeking a proposal from a group of Friends willing to shoulder the responsibility of managing the Rausch Street property should the meeting decide to take title, Rolene Walker reported that Tim Schwartz, Amy Baker, David Matchett, Philip Gerrie, Dawn Moore, and Dalton Tedford have so far expressed interest. Rolene expressed confidence in getting a group and a proposal together. Stephen reported that he has been in communication with the trust administrators to keep them informed about our process. In response to a question, Stephen reported that the trust administrators had clarified that the property would likely go to Joe’s family if we do not accept the property, not to the University of Tennessee as originally thought.  (The trust document is ambiguous on this point.)

Quarterly Meeting Fall Session Report
Alice Sowaal, our College Park Quarterly Meeting (CPQM) Representative, reported on the recent Fall Session held at Sierra Friends Center in Grass Valley, California, referring Friends also to the “Quarterly Quick Notes” which had been previously circulated by e-mail.  The theme of the gathering was “Being in the world but not of it.” The Center’s recently expanded garden provided all of the vegetables served at the session, and Friends participated in a service project in the garden as one of the activities on offer on Saturday afternoon. There were reports from Friends Committee on Legislation of California, the Friends International Center in Ramallah and other Quaker groups. A $1,000 scholarship was granted to help a young Friend in the quarter attend the Woolman Semester. Alice shared that attending Quarterly Meeting was “another beautiful experience of being in the beloved community, camping, sharing meals, and being in nature.” At future Quarterly Meeting gatherings, if you would like to offer an interest group, please be sure to make your proposal at least eight weeks in advance, to the planning committee which meets six weeks prior to the session. The Winter Session of CPQM is the 19th of January, 2013 at Palo Alto Friends Meeting. It will be a one-day session and registration is not required but the planners do need information on any children or teens planning to attend.

Property & Finance Committee – Proposed 2013 Budget
Amy Baker, treasurer, presented the proposed budget for 2013. (Copy attached to archive copy of these minutes.)  One challenge in planning for next year was a potential shortfall of $7,500. The needs of our community have grown and our expenses have grown and expected income is not keeping pace. Amy reported that the committee made adjustments and is presenting a balanced budget. She went through the proposal, highlighting various points:
Income:
Donations are budgeted to increase slightly, however this income is not guaranteed.
Some additional income will come from basement space rental and a change in tenants in Room 3 with increased rent.
Retreats (Annual and Women’s) are budgeted at a deficit (compare respective income and expense lines) rather than breaking even as in the past, reflecting increased scholarship need and Friends’ expressed desire to support the gatherings in this way; however, we were not able to budget quite the amount of shortfall the Retreats Subcommittee sought.
An infusion from the General Fund is proposed to cover a portion of our PYM assessment, this being the first year since exhausting the three-year self-subsidy we set aside to cover the substantial increase resulting from the hiring of the PYM Youth Program Coordinator (YPC).  Assuming the YPC position is continued (to be decided at next annual session), the assessment amount will remain at the higher level, and we will need to cover the increase as part of our operating budget.  The proposed infusion will cushion the blow for one year. 
Expenses:
Gatherings Fund (assistance to attend wider Quaker gatherings) and Sharing Fund (hardship needs) contributions reflect a slightly reduced target balance for next year.
The building repairs line is reduced, and reflects an annual contribution to the building fund rather than a direct expense line, restoring Meeting’s past practice.
Costs for bookkeeping and payroll have been reduced.
The meeting will offer a modest “cost of living adjustment” for the Building Manager position for the first time in four years.
The Food Pantry is growing and as a result the costs have increased about $1,000, which will help us serve more families in the neighborhood.
Children’s Religious Education has added another paid person for childcare on Sundays, however some reductions appear possible.
The budget, with any adjustments made in the interim, will come before us again in December for approval.  A Friend asked whether it might be time to raise our rates for meeting space use.  Some Friends also expressed a preference for being informed what their “share” of financial support would be toward the beginning of the year rather than in a year-end appeal (recognizing of course that Friends are expected to contribute what they are able, some more and some less according to their means; nevertheless an average amount spread across the membership is a helpful guide).

Ministry & Oversight Committee
David Matchett, co-clerk, reported for M&O. The committee was in unity to approve Peter Schmidt’s requested membership transfer.

11-02: Meeting approves the transfer of Peter Schmidt’s membership to St. Petersburg (FL) Monthly Meeting.

David shared about several Friends who are facing medical concerns or need eldercare. Friends are asked to help support these people, if you can, please contact David or others from M&O. They are creating a sign up list of a variety of needs and volunteer duties.

Property & Finance Committee(contd.)
Philip Gerrie, committee clerk, reported that the American Friends Service Committee will be remodeling its offices upstairs in December.  AFSC is paying for the new construction, and Meeting for the recarpeting and painting, which were needed even in the absence of a remodel.  The job will proceed in tandem with the kitchen renovation (see next item), and Meeting and AFSC are sharing the expense of the architect and contractor. The Institute for Public Accuracy has vacated Room 3, and our new tenant, the Center for Lao Studies, is moving in, with, as noted in the proposed budget, an increased rent.  Philip also reported that we are now part of the city’s composting program, and will have compost receptacles available in addition to trash and recycling.

Kitchen Renovation - Additional Funding Request
Philip, clerk of P&F, and Stephen, clerk of meeting, made a joint presentation on this issue.  In 2011, Meeting authorized the then-ad hoc Kitchen Committee to move ahead with the kitchen renovation for an amount not to exceed $44,000, which Meeting set aside for the purpose.  Stephen noted the project’s somewhat fraught history, both leading up to and since that time, and the fact that the personnel on the committee are now down to two—Philip and himself—and that they have been attempting to carry out Meeting’s plans.

As reported at previous meetings, potential requirements for updated ADA (Americans with Disabilities Act) compliance in other parts of the building necessitated our hiring an architect with expertise in that area.  In addition, the question of project management had never been settled, and the most practical, though not the least costly, way forward was to hire a general contractor.  In the mean time, the AFSC’s remodeling job came into play, and we jointly hired the architect, who obtained a consolidated permit for both jobs, including a hardship exemption for Meeting from some potentially costly ADA upgrades in other parts of the building.  In addition, we have jointly hired the same contractor to perform the work and manage subcontractors.  Despite these savings, and concerted efforts working closely with these professionals to bring the cost of the project into line with our available funding, the more realistic estimate of the overall cost of the kitchen renovation has risen by an additional $23,000. The committee proposes that these funds be taken from the General Fund.

Philip circulated copies of the current plans for Friends to review, and answered questions.  Stephen reviewed the current state of the General Fund, which stands at just under $50,000, thanks in part to the contribution from the developer of the property next door, in payment of past costs Meeting incurred in connection with that project.  Along with charges for the AFSC carpeting and painting discussed earlier ($17,000), the proposed PYM assessment stepdown amount (see budget discussion) and $800 for the Rausch St. inspection (see 9/30/12 threshing session notes), the proposed $23,000 would bring the balance of the fund to about $6,000.  This is less than a comfortable operating reserve, for which the target would be closer to $12,000, or 10% of our operating budget.  However, Stephen and Philip identified other funds on Meeting’s balance sheet with potential surpluses that are effectively part of that reserve.  (These include the Roof Replacement and Engineering reserves, with a combined estimated surplus of about $15,000 above actual expected costs.  Meeting also has a separate nearly $7,000 Emergency Reserve.)

Stephen noted his substantial involvement in creating and advocating the proposal before Meeting, and offered to step aside from clerking Meeting’s decision process on the matter.  Friends declined the offer.  One Friend suggested that a contingency amount would be advisable in addition to the sum sought, and there was general assent.  Friends expressed appreciation for everyone who has had a part in the planning and support for this project. 

11-03: Meeting approves an additional $23,000 for the kitchen project from the General Fund, with an additional pre-approved contingency amount of $2,000, for a total of $25,000.

Peterson Toscano Sponsorship
Neil Fullagar made a request that Meeting sponsor an expected performance by New England Yearly Meeting Friend, teacher and performance artist, Peterson Toscano, at the San Francisco Lesbian-Gay-Bisexual-Transgender Community Center in January 2013, and if possible to sponsor a second performance event at the meetinghouse the same week.  Peterson’s current works are “Transfigurations” (on gender-nonconforming Bible characters) and “Jesus Had Two Daddies” (a personal reflection on LGBT and biblical themes).  Neil suggested that Peterson could perform the former at the Community Center and the latter at the meetinghouse.  Stephen Matchett reported that Ministry & Oversight Committee had agreed to Neil’s bringing this proposal to Meeting, and that Peace & Social Concerns Committee is also united in supporting sponsorship.  Sponsorship involves no direct expense, however there will be outreach needed to help promote the events.  Neil is offering to do the majority of needed logistical support.  As this is Peterson’s livelihood, there would also need to be a door donation requested, DVD sales and/or a passing of the hat at the event.  Meeting’s policies on this question permit all of the above, provided no one is turned away for lack of funds.

11-04: Meeting agrees to co-sponsor Peterson Toscano’s performance at the LGBT Community Center in January 2013, and to host, if practical, another performance at the meetinghouse in the same period. Neil Fullagar, Charles Martin and other volunteers they recruit will work together to determine the precise dates and other arrangements.

After a period of announcements and sharing of joys and concerns, Meeting closed with worship at 3:30 pm with 14 people in attendance.

Respectfully submitted,
Blake Arnall, Recording Clerk                                                     
Stephen Matchett, Clerk of Meeting



Dear Friends,

Happy Thanksgiving!! I hope you are all enjoying the fulfillment of time with family and friends. I'm not sure whether I'll be celebrating this year or not. I baked a turkey about a month ago for Canadian Thanksgiving, so am uninspired to do so again this week. 

Anand and I just got back tonight from an overnight retreat at a Benedictine Monastery that is about a 45 minute drive away. We're trying to be more intentional in our walk with God and open ourselves to hear what God's will is for both of us in the next year or two. Please hold us in the light as we start this process of discernment. 
Last week we got to see Obama re-elected while visiting a friend who works at the American Embassy in Dar es Salaam. It was a huge relief and gives me hope for America's future. This past week we went to hear Richard Leakey speak on the fossil finds in Turkana - it is an honor to see someone that is a living legend in the field of anthropology. It was also timely to see some positive news from that region as we've been horrified by the news of close to 50 policemen being killed in the tension between the cattle rustlers and the local corrupt police force.

On a positive note, we are hearing really positive news about what is happening in Somalia. The new president is committed to peace and has attended courses at the Eastern Mennonite College. He also has a relationship with the AFSC Somalia program that is based here in Nairobi. When I hear about the changes that Mogadishu is undergoing, I feel as though I witnessing a modern day miracle!
I ask for your continued prayers for Kenya, especially as we get closer to our next elections in March of 2013.

Love,
Heidi


Christmas Caroling Party

On Dec. 21st, Friday at 6:00, there will be a potluck and  singing at Rolene Walker's 85 Western Shore Lane #2, SF 94115.  Main dish provided, bring a side or desert and drinks.  RSVP's would be appreciated. (415) 359-9297



A Visit from Lucy Duncan

Lucy Duncan, AFSC Friend’s Liaison, will be visiting the Bay Area
On First Day, December 2, 1 p.m. She will tell two stories about AFSC¹s work in healing and reconciliation around the world. She will tell of the moving stories she heard in Burundi of victims and perpetrators of violence whose lives were changed in trauma healing workshops. She will tell the story of how AFSC staff have been instrumental in the development of the first Truth and Reconciliation commission between a sovereign Indian tribe and a US state, Maine.  Lucy will also talk about channels that AFSC has established to work together with Quaker meetings and churches for peace and justice.

Laura Magnani will join Lucy and contribute stories of local AFSC work and opportunities for engagement.

Lucy has been a storyteller for 20 years, is a member of Goshen Monthly Meeting, and lives in a Quaker cemetery in Upper Darby, PA with her husband and 10 year old son.


Creative Conflict Resolution Workshop

Two Parts: Saturday, December 8 & Saturday, December 15, 2012
9:00 A.M. to 6:00 P.M.

In San Francisco near Civic Center BART Station at the
St. Vincent de Paul Society - Ozanam Wellness Center
1175 Howard St., 94103 (between 7th and 8th Sts.)

The
workshop is facilitated by the Alternatives to Violence Project (AVP), www.AVPCalifornia.org.
AVP gives you tools to be a more powerful peacemaker and to build community. Our workshops use the shared experiences of participants, interactive exercises, games and role-plays to see beyond differences, to explore common ground and discover the power within ourselves to transform our lives and our community. AVP is a 35-year-old international non-profit that is working in communities, hundreds of US prisons and in many challenging parts of the world.  Leadership opportunities exist in community and prisons. Join us in creating a more peaceful place to live!

Free to people with low-income; $35 - 125 donation requested from those who can afford it.

To register for the workshop contact Amy at:
AVP/Bay Bridge Council,
P.O. Box 20252, Oakland, CA 94610
E-Mail: avpbaybridge@gmail.com, Phone: 510-394-2622

For more information contact Mark Thomas, workshop facilitator team coordinator:mark@transformingpower.com


December 2012 News from Ben Lomond Quaker Center

The long-awaited culvert replacement is complete!  After 5 solid weeks of construction and many, many months of negotiations with our county Resource Conservation District, the road to Quaker Center is now no longer at risk of washing away due to a failure of the old culvert. We now have a larger culvert in place with a more stable roadbed surrounding it.  What a relief! –both to have the disruptions of construction behind us and to feel confidence in the literal road ahead.
                  Because we anticipated a decline in rental bookings during the culvert road construction, we made a plan to renovate the Orchard Lodge during that time. We are grateful for the generous response we received to our request for financial support of the Orchard Lodge Renovation Project, with gifts amounting to five times greater than we typically receive mid-year.  While we have not yet reached our Project goal, we are taking advantage of the vacant lodge to utilize the gifts we've received so far. We've prioritized our list of needed renovations  and have begun by replacing the kitchen range, which was rapidly becoming unusable. We're also upgrading bathroom windows and fixtures, exchanging old water heaters with on-demand models, replacing thin bedroom curtains with insulated curtains, and resurfacing the bedroom walls. We'll pick up with the rest of the renovation plans as funds become available.
                  Please come see these improvements yourself and join us at the Year End Retreat: Whole Mind, Whole Body, Holy Spirit, lead by Walter and Traci Hjelt Sullivan, which begins on December 27th and ends on January 1, 2013. This retreat will be an experiential exploration of the relationship between body, spirit, and the art of living into wholeness.  Please register online by Thursday, December 20th at http://www.quakercenter.org.  You will also find the 2013 Program Schedule there.
                  If you can’t attend the Year End Retreat but still want a chance to catch up with Walter, Traci, Rebecca and Grace, we’re giving you another opportunity:  Please join us for "Lunch with the Sullivans, A Benefit for Quaker Center” on December 26th from 11am to 2pm.  Help us honor Traci and Walter's 14 years of service to Quaker Center by joining us and making a donation for this event on a sliding scale from $5 to $500.  If you'd like to join us, RSVP to mail@quakercenter.org or call our office at 831-336-8333.



The upcoming Pacific Yearly Meeting session will be July 29 - Aug 3, 2013, at Mount Madonna Center, in Watsonville CA

The next CPQM Gathering will be a one day meeting on Saturday, January 19, 2013 at Palo Alto Friends Meeting.     


  
Google Groups for SF Quakers
This is the group to which to send your late breaking announcements or share other news with the meeting community. You can sign up via the web: http://groups.google.com/group/sfquakers. You will need to create a free Google user ID and password, if you don’t already have one.

Visit http://groups.google.com/group/sfquakers/about to join or learn more.

A group for young adult Friends in San Francisco is at http://groups.google.com/group/youngsfmeeting

A group for parents in the San Francisco Meeting is at http://groups.google.com/group/sf-crec-parents

A Google Group for Bay Area Quakers is now available at http://groups.google.com/group/bayareaquakers. The group is for Bay Area Quaker meetings, churches, and organizations, as well as individual Friends, to share news of events and activities that would be of interest to Quakers and the general public. Events do not need to be strictly Quaker. For more information, contact Tom Yamaguchi, tomyamaguchi@mac.com

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(all events at 65 9th St., unless noted; *see details elsewhere in newsletter)
Sunday
Monday
Tuesday
Wednesday
Thursday
Friday
Saturday
25

11a Meeting for Worship

26





27





28


6p Meeting for Worship
29



12p Peace Vigil

7p Potluck & Quaker Study
30

1

10:30a-1p Food Pantry

2
9:30a Bible Study
11a Meeting for Worship, Community potluck following
1p Storytelling by Lucy Duncan, AFSC
3




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4




7p Property & Finance Mtg
5
8:30a SFFS Community Mtg for Worship†
6p Meeting for Worship
7p Ministry & Oversight Mtg
6



12p Peace Vigil

7p Potluck & Quaker Study
7
8

10:30a-1p Food Pantry
9
11a Meeting for Worship
1p Meeting for Business
10
11
12


6p Meeting for Worship
13
12p Peace Vigil

7p Potluck & Quaker Study
14

15

10:30a-1p Food Pantry
16
9:30a Bible Study

11a Meeting for Worship
17
18
19


6p Meeting for Worship
20

12p Peace Vigil

7p Potluck & Quaker Study
21
6p Christmas
Caroling at
Rolene
Walker's
22

10:30a-1p Food Pantry

23
11a Meeting for Worship_______________
30
9:30a Extended Meeting for Worship
24



25
11a Meeting for Worship, Community Potluck to Follow
26


6p Meeting for Worship
27

12p Peace Vigil

7p Potluck & Quaker Study
28
29

10:30a-1p Food Pantry

‡Federal Building, Golden Gate Ave. and Larkin St. †San Francisco Friends School, 250 Valencia St.