Saturday, October 25, 2014

November (Eleventh Month) 2014 Meeting Newsletter

    


65 Ninth Street
San Francisco, CA 94103
415-431-7440

November 2014 Newsletter
(Eleventh Month)
Meeting for Worship
& First Day School
Sundays at 11:00 a.m.
Midweek Meeting for Worship, Wednesdays at 6:00 p.m.
 

Peace

 Friends oppose all war as inconsistent with God’s will. As every person is a child of God, we recognize God’s Light also in our adversaries. Violence and injustice deny this reality and violate the teachings of Jesus and other prophets.
 Friends challenge their governments and take personal risks in the cause of peace. We urge one another to refuse to participate in war as soldiers, or as arms manufacturers. We seek ways to support those who refrain from paying taxes that support war. We work to end violence within our own borders, our homes, our streets, and our communities. We support international order, justice, and understanding.
Become an instrument of peace. At every opportunity, be peacemakers in your homes, workplaces and communities. Steep yourself in the power of the universal Spirit. Examine your actions for the seeds of violence, degradation and destructiveness. Overcome the emotions that lie at the root of violence and nurture instead a spirit of reconciliation and love. Come to know the oneness of all creation and oppose the destruction of the natural world.

Do I live in the virtue of that life and power that takes away the occasion of all wars?
How do I nourish peace within myself as I work for peace in the world?
Do I confront violence wherever it occurs, even when my personal relationships are involved?
Where there is distrust, injustice, or hatred, how am I an instrument of reconciliation and love?

What are we doing to remove the causes of war and destruction of the planet, and to bring about lasting peace?
Do we reach out to all parties in a conflict with courage and love?



Meeting for Business began at approximately 1:03 pm with a period of worship. The clerk opened with a reading from Pacific Yearly Meeting’s Faith and Practice: the Advices & Queries on Personal Relationships. In vocal ministry, a Friend observed that one thing that happens in this
room during meeting for business and meeting for worship is deep listening. He expressed hope that, as we consider upcoming financial matters, we deeply listen to one another with love and compassion. 23 people were present.

10­-1 Meeting approves the minutes of September 14, 2014, with the minutes renumbered. The minute labeled “9­1” concerning approval of nominations should be numbered “9­3”.

10-­2 Meeting approves Krista Barnard as acting recording clerk for today's meeting.

Clerk’s message: Clerk Chad Stephenson gave a message at the beginning of the first monthly meeting for business that he has clerked. He may fall down. It’s about how we pick each other up when we fall, not about not falling. He introduced a yearly theme: membership. He anticipates spending a sliver of each business meeting on this topic, including such questions as why we have membership at all and what a good member is. He noted that he tends to move quickly and decisively, and asked for feedback about his tempo or other aspects of his clerking.

Nominating Committee: Arthur Koch reported for the committee. He expressed thanks to Chad for agreeing to serve as clerk. Nominating proposes releasing Chad from Nominating Committee, and nominates him as a member of the News Committee, specifically as Webservant, for a term ending April 30, 2016. Release of Eli Bishop, who is presently the
Webservant, is also proposed.

10-­3 Meeting approves release of Chad Stephenson as a member of Nominating Committee.

Naming Committee: This is an ad hoc committee that meets for approximately one month and nominates members of the Nominating Committee. This year the task of the Naming Committee is to propose to monthly meeting three members for Nominating Committee and one person to
clerk the committee. After a period of consideration, two names emerged from those who were present and also willing to serve. Meeting agreed a third person may be named with help from the Clerk.

10-­4 Meeting approves David Matchett (convenor) and Paula Joyce as members of Naming Committee.

Property and Finance Committee: Philip Gerrie reported for the committee. For the last month or so, we have had a new building use by the group 67 Sueños: preparation of a healthy lunch for and by teen members of the group, a project of the AFSC. Friends expressed support of this use of the kitchen. The committee is working with 67 Sueños to resolve issues about sharing the kitchen. Members of Hospitality and Community Committee voiced concerns about management and use of the refrigerator; clean­up of the kitchen; and proper sorting of recyclables and compost. The Friday night food sharing and food pantry programs do make use of the refrigerator/freezer and are willing to be in touch about this topic with the Property and Finance Committee.

The initial draft of a proposed 2015 budget was distributed. This early draft was brought to assist Meeting in considering implications ahead of the normal budgeting process. The budget proposal included realistic estimates of projected income. Two preliminary versions included making no reductions in our expenses, which would produce a $10,000 deficit or a $7,000 deficit. Committee clerks should examine their committee budgets and communicate with the Property and Finance Committee about possible changes. (Copy of this draft is included with original minutes in meeting archives).

Rausch St. Committee: Philip Gerrie reported for the committee. Tomorrow the contractor will begin the process of clean­up. Application for a building permit has begun.

Peace and Social Concerns: Charles Martin reported for the committee. The food pantry is going through an exciting time. Friday Food Sharing is going well, with participation by some families with children. There are some financial contributions being made specifically for food provision to the poor, so we may need to create a way to keep track of earmarked donations. He also gave a series of announcements of upcoming events. David Hartsough will be giving a talk on his new book, Waging Peace, at the meetinghouse on November 2 after the potluck lunch.
Casa de los Amigos in Mexico City is leading a Quaker Social Action in Mexico Learning tour, January 10 to 18, 2015. Flyers for these and other events were posted after Meeting for Business on the bulletin board over the toy box.

Ministry & Oversight Committee: Bob Kovsky reported for the committee, which will move joys and concerns to occur during the last 5 to 10 meeting for worship. This will begin in about two weeks, and the committee welcomes Friends’ responses.

Meeting for Business closed with worship at approximately 3:10 pm with 20 people in attendance. In vocal ministry, a Friend reflected on the letter of James: all that is good in humans is from God. We are called to try to be our best selves, and we will all fall short, and we must forgive one another.

Respectfully submitted,

Krista Barnard, Acting Recording Clerk
Chad Stephenson, Clerk of Meeting



2014 November News from Ben Lomond Quaker Center

Join us to explore the relevance of early Friends’ experiences of personal transformation with Diego Navarro as we look at Leadings and Holy Obedience from November 14th – 16th. We will also consider the link between the inner growth of the Spirit and the external witnessing of Friends, and comprehending what is meant by turning one’s life over to the Spirit: from “my will” to “thy will”, and leading what Thomas Kelly calls a “God-intoxicated” life. Find out more and register at http://www.quakercenter.org/leadings-and-holy-obedience/.

We are once again hosting our Music and Dance Retreat, a low-cost, participant produced program with a sliding scale of only $60-$100 per person for a weekend filled with a variety of singing and playing punctuated by a few dancing opportunities. Bring your kids and grandkids or just yourselves and join us from Dec. 5-7th for a few days of fun making food, music, and song together with a professionally called community dance on Saturday night. Find out more and register online at

We invite Friends of all branches of Quakerism to come to the well of our faith, to share the sweet waters of waiting worship and fellowship. This year end retreat from December 27th to January 1st will call on us to seek replenishment by opening ourselves to God and the inward Christ, deepening our connections and enlivening our spirits. Join us for Spring Forth a Well: What Are We Waiting For? which will be facilitated by Dorothy Henderson. Learn more and register before Dec.15th at

November 2014 News from AFSC

For decades studies have shown that the most important contributor to a prisoner successfully transitioning to the outside and establishing a new life for him/herself is maintaining good family ties.  Key to this is encouraging families to visit.  Unfortunately the Department of Corrections and Rehabilitation (CDCR) makes visiting very difficult by placing institutions in isolated locations, many miles from population centers, and by humiliating people when they go to visit.  Now a new set of regulations will allow the Department to subject visitors to ION Scanners to search for contraband, particularly drugs. In the past these devices were found so inaccurate that the federal government abandoned similar practices, after purchasing the expensive equipment.

Please write to Timothy Lockwood, Chief Regulation and Policy Management Branch, CDCR, P.O. Box 942883, Sacramento CA 94283 no later than December 9, or come to Sacramento for the hearing on December 9, 9:00 a.m. – 10:00 a.m.  Written responses should refer to regulations amending Title 15, Division 3, Section 3173.2. We are particularly concerned about pregnant women and women of child bearing years being subjected to these searches is they visit loved ones often. Contact Laura at the SF AFSC office if you need more information, (415) 565-0201 Ext. 11.





College Park Quarterly Meeting
The upcoming College Park Quarterly Meeting will be January 17th, 2015 at Berkeley Meeting House

Pacific Yearly Meeting

The upcoming Pacific Yearly Meeting session will be July 15-19 at Whitworth University in Spokane, Washington



The group named "San Francisco Monthly Meeting" is for sharing announcements or other news with the meeting community. If you wish to be added to the group, please send a request to clerk@sfquakers.org . You will also need to create a free Google user ID and password, if you don’t already have one, you can create one at https://accounts.google.com/signup?service=mail . The address of the group is sfquakers@googlegroups.com

A Google group for Bay Area Quakers is now available at http://groups.google.com/group/bayareaquakers. The group is for Bay Area Quaker meetings, churches, and organizations, as well as individual Friends, to share news of events and activities that would be of interest to Quakers and the general public. Events do not need to be strictly Quaker. For more information, contact Tom Yamaguchi, tomyamaguchi@mac.com


Help on using Google Groups is also available at: http://groups.google.com/support





Submissions to the newsletter are due by the next-to-last First Day (Sunday) of each month in the News Committee mailbox at the meetinghouse, or by e-mail to news@sfquakers.org. This newsletter is also available for reading or downloading on our website at http://www.sfquakers.org/news.html.

Members of the News Committee are Kate McCarley (clerk, editor), Chad Stephenson (web servant), and Catherine Fox (production)



(all events at 65 9th St., unless noted; *see details elsewhere in newsletter)
Sunday
Monday
Tuesday
Wednesday
Thursday
Friday
Saturday
2
9:30a Bible Study
11a Meeting for Worship, Community Potluck and talk from David Hartsough on “Waging Peace” following
3
4



7p Property & Finance Mtg
5
8:30a SFFS Meeting for Worship
6p Meeting for Worship
7p Ministry & Oversight Mtg
6

12p Peace Vigil

7p Potluck & Quaker Study
7
8

10:30a-1p Food Pantry

9
11a Meeting for Worship
1p Meeting for Business

10
11




12



6p Meeting for Worship

13

12p Peace Vigil

7p Potluck & Quaker Study
14
15

10:30a-1p Food Pantry
16
9:30a Bible Study
11a Meeting for Worship

17
18
19


6p Meeting for Worship
20
12p Peace Vigil

7p Potluck & Quaker Study
21
22
10:30a-1p Food Pantry

23
9:15 Non-Violent Comm. Practice Group
11a Meeting for Worship
24
25
26


6p Meeting for Worship
27
12p Peace Vigil

7p Potluck & Quaker Study
28
29
10:30a-1p Food Pantry
30
9a Extended Meeting for Worship

1

2
3



6p Meeting for Worship
4
12p Peace Vigil


7p Potluck & Quaker Study
5
6
10:30a-1p Food Pantry

‡Federal Building, Golden Gate Ave. and Larkin St. †San Francisco Friends School, 250 Valencia St.

October (Tenth Month) 2014 Meeting Newsletter

October 2014 Newsletter
(Tenth Month)

Meeting for Worship
& First Day School
Sundays at 11:00 a.m.
Midweek Meeting for Worship, Wednesdays at 6:00 p.m.



Personal Relationships

In daily relationships with others, both inside and outside the home, our lives as Friends speak immediately and lastingly. In these relationships, our faith may also be severely tested. We are called to respond to that of God in everyone: we are all children of God. Friends celebrate any union that is dedicated to mutual love and respect, regardless of the unique make-up of the family. We strive to create homes where the Spirit of the Divine resides at the center and where the individual genius of each member is respected and nurtured.
Human sexuality is a divine gift, forming part of the complex union of body, mind and spirit that is our humanity. In a loving adult relationship in a context of mutual responsibility, sexuality brings delight, fulfillment and celebration.
The presence of children carries a special blessing as well as responsibility. Children bring unique spiritual gifts — wonder, resiliency, playfulness and more. Recognize and honor the Divine Light within children and treat them with the dignity and respect that is due to all people. Listen to and learn from children; share with them those values and practices that are central to our own lives. Special care must be given to resolving problems between adults and children in a manner that gives equal weight to the feelings and needs of both children and adults. Tender parenting is one of the critically important peace vocations in our society. Make every effort to offer all parents the personal and institutional support that this challenging work requires.
Take a strong stand against any form of abuse, whether that abuse is minor or severe, and whether it is emotional, physical or sexual in nature. The terrible impact of abuse on the most vulnerable members of our families creates lifelong suffering for its victims and is a major source of violence in our society. Perpetrators are themselves usually victims of similar violence and should be approached with compassion as well as firmness.

Do I make my home a place of friendliness, joy, and peace, where residents and visitors feel God’s presence?
Are my sexual practices consistent with my spiritual beliefs and free of manipulation and exploitation?
What barriers keep me from responding openly and lovingly to each person?

Do we open our thoughts, beliefs, and deep understandings to our children and others who share our lives and our hospitality?

Do we provide our children and young adults with a framework for active, ongoing participation in the Meeting?




Meeting for Business began at 1:08 pm with a period of worship, with 21 people present. The clerk opened with a reading from Pacific Yearly Meeting’s Advices & Queries on Integrity and Personal Conduct. The reading was followed by silent reflection.


9-1 Meeting approves Stephen Matchett as acting clerk for today’s meeting



9-2 Meeting approves minutes of August 10, 2014, as presented

Action on Nominations

9-3 Meeting approves the appointments of Chad Stephenson as Presiding Clerk and of Stephen Matchett as Assistant Clerk, each for a term ending April 30, 2015


Meeting Youth
Beth Bird reported that she has been having lots of conversations in recent years about ways of invigorating children's education in the meeting and welcoming children in the meeting overall, and would like to bring some ideas to the meeting in a more formal way. Friends expressed interest and gratitude for the energy Beth and others were putting into this effort, and encouraged her to work with the Children's Religious Education and/or Ministry & Oversight Committees to season and possibly implement some of the ideas that have emerged.

Ministry & Oversight Committee
Bob Kovsky reported for Ministry & Oversight Committee that there have been some comments that the Google groups listserv has experienced some problems with over-posting and postings that aren't close enough to the meeting, and the committee is discussing policies for the list and asks for feedback from the meeting.

Continuing Discernment on Proposed Rausch St. Plans and deBeers Bequest Allocation
Amy Baker, Treasurer and member of the Rausch Street Committee, distributed a report containing a proposed minute addressing the questions left undecided at the August 2014 Meeting for Business, with supporting notes (copy attached to archive copy of these minutes).  In response to questions preserved in the minutes of that meeting, she clarified that Option A of $120,000 includes an anticipation of expenses involving electrical and plumbing and other structural needs, and that the more costly Option B ($205,000) is contingent on an allocation of money from the deBeers bequest while Plan A is not.  Amy also once more explained the committee’s support for pursuing the more ambitious of the two plans.  During the ensuing discussion, the clerk reminded Friends that some matters had already been decided—namely, to renovate the upstairs flat and to pay for that work by renting the renovated unit as a residence—and that the issues before us were (1) whether to pursue the Rausch St. Committee’s proposed expanded renovation plan or its more modest original plan, and (2) whether to approve the allocation of 75% of the deBeers bequest to the Rausch St. project, as proposed by Property & Finance Committee, either to enable the pursuit of the expanded renovation, or to shorten the repayment period on the financing of even the original renovation plan.  (In response to questions from the clerk, Amy indicated that the proposed approximately $150,000 allocation would shorten the repayment period from an estimated ten years down to four years under Option A, and under Option B would make possible the additional $85,000 of work and shorten the repayment period from an estimated 15 years down to eight years.)  A Friend expressed simultaneous support for the expanded renovation proposal and hesitation to commit any amount of deBeers money irretrievably to the project until Meeting could engage in more discernment about alternate uses for those funds as discussed in the recent threshing session on Meeting finances.  This Friend proposed that Meeting loan the Rausch St. project the needed $85,000 to undertake the expanded renovation, while deferring until the project’s completion the question of whether to recover those funds as part of the refinancing that will be necessary upon retirement of the existing construction loan, or to leave all or a portion of that expenditure in place, and/or to allocate an increased amount, for example up to the 75% figure proposed by Property & Finance.  Friends united with this suggestion, expressing gratitude for the emergence of a way forward.



9-4 Meeting approves the expanded renovation of the Rausch Street Property (Option B) as proposed by the Rausch Street Committee, and approves temporarily allocating $85,000 toward that renovation.  Upon completion of the renovation, Meeting will either recover the $85,000 as part of the refinancing of the loan or decide whether to leave all or part of that expenditure in place.  The Treasurer will transfer the $85,000 from the DeBeers Bequest Fund to the Rausch Street Fund.


Announcements, Joys & Concerns
We received a thank you for our donation last year to the San Francisco Interfaith Council. A Friend shared that  Friday Food Share has received a $300 grant and they are pursuing further grants, of the originally allocated $1,200 for this year, only $700 will be used, as they have been receiving more than anticipated donations.
Meeting for Business closed with worship at 3:20 pm with 18 people in attendance.
Respectfully submitted,
Ann Marie Snell                                       Stephen Matchett
Recording Clerk                                      Acting Presiding Clerk


October 2014 News from Ben Lomond Quaker Center

Quaker Center and Western Friend share a vision to employ an energetic Friend who is all fired up to help rekindle Quakerism in the west. This new Administrative Assistant will live among the redwoods at Quaker Center and support our two organizations with online presence and other work behind-the-scenes. Help us build a stronger foundation for supporting the spiritual lives of western Friends and meetings. Find out more and how to apply at http://www.quakercenter.org/about-us/employment-opportunities/
Join Laura Magnani and her American Friends Service Committee colleague, Jerry Elster from October 3rd – 5th, for The Violence of Mass Incarceration: Our Prison System as the New Jim Crow.   We’ll explore the dynamics of mass incarceration spiritually and socially, focusing on the advocacy work being done, and yet to be done, by Friends. Laura and Jerry will facilitate conversations and exercises examining the system as it is, our attitudes about it, and directions that are opening up for significant change. Get more information and register online at http://www.quakercenter.org/the-violence-of-incarceration/.

Come and explore the relevance of early Friends’ experiences of personal transformation with Diego Navarro as we look at Leadings and Holy Obedience from November 14th – 16th.  We will also consider the link between the inner growth of the Spirit and the external witnessing of Friends, and comprehending what is meant by turning one’s life over to the Spirit: from “my will” to “thy will”, and leading what Thomas Kelly calls a “God-intoxicated” life. Find out more at http://www.quakercenter.org/leadings-and-holy-obedience/ and register early.


College Park Quarterly Meeting
The upcoming College Park Quarterly Meeting will be October 17 - 19 (Fri-Sun) at Sierra Friends Center in Nevada City

Pacific Yearly Meeting

The upcoming Pacific Yearly Meeting session will be July 15-19 at Whitworth University in Spokane, Washington.



The group named "San Francisco Monthly Meeting" is for sharing announcements or other news with the meeting community. If you wish to be added to the group, please send a request to clerk@sfquakers.org . You will also need to create a free Google user ID and password, if you don’t already have one, you can create one at https://accounts.google.com/signup?service=mail . The address of the group is sfquakers@googlegroups.com

A Google group for Bay Area Quakers is now available at http://groups.google.com/group/bayareaquakers. The group is for Bay Area Quaker meetings, churches, and organizations, as well as individual Friends, to share news of events and activities that would be of interest to Quakers and the general public. Events do not need to be strictly Quaker. For more information, contact Tom Yamaguchi, tomyamaguchi@mac.com

Help on using Google Groups is also available at: http://groups.google.com/support


Submissions to the newsletter are due by the next-to-last First Day (Sunday) of each month in the News Committee mailbox at the meetinghouse, or by e-mail to news@sfquakers.org. This newsletter is also available for reading or downloading on our website at http://www.sfquakers.org/news.html.

Members of the News Committee are Kate McCarley (clerk, editor), Eli Bishop (web servant), and Catherine Fox (production



(all events at 65 9th St., unless noted; *see details elsewhere in newsletter)
Sunday
Monday
Tuesday
Wednesday
Thursday
Friday
Saturday
28
9:15 Non-Violent Comm. Practice Group
11a Meeting for Worship
29
30


1
8:30a SFFS Meeting for Worship

6 Meeting for Worship
2

12p Peace Vigil

7p Potluck & Quaker Study
3
4

10:30a-1p Food Pantry

5
9:30a Bible Study
11a Meeting for Worship, Community Potluck following

6
7
7p Property & Finance Mtg



8

6 Meeting for Worship
7p Ministry & Oversight Mtg
9

12p Peace Vigil

7p Potluck & Quaker Study
10
11

10:30a-1p Food Pantry
12
11a Meeting for Worship
1p Meeting for Business

13
14
15


6p Meeting for Worship
16
12p Peace Vigil

7p Potluck & Quaker Study
17
18
10:30a-1p Food Pantry

19
9:30a Bible Study
11a Meeting for Worship

20
21
22


6p Meeting for Worship
23
12p Peace Vigil

7p Potluck & Quaker Study
24
25
10:30a-1p Food Pantry
26
9:15 Non-Violent Comm. Practice Group
11a Meeting for Worship
27

28
29




6p Meeting for Worship
30

12p Peace Vigil


7p Potluck & Quaker Study
31
1
10:30a-1p Food Pantry
‡Federal Building, Golden Gate Ave. and Larkin St. †San Francisco Friends School, 250 Valencia St.