Friday, January 25, 2013

February (Second Month) 2013 Newsletter


     


February 2013 Newsletter
(Second Month)
Meeting for Worship
& First Day School
Sundays at 11:00 a.m.
Midweek Meeting for Worship, Wednesdays at 6:00 p.m.


SPIRITUAL LIFE

Advices:
The life of the spirit gains depth and vigor through devotional practices, prayer, study and meditation. Take time regularly for individual and family worship, discussions, readings from sacred texts, and other spiritual refreshment in order to live a more centered life and to bring a deeper presence to the Meeting for Worship.

Friends believe that the spiritual path is best found in community. Create opportunities in your Meetings for people of all ages to explore and express their evolving relationship with the Divine, their spiritual highs and their doubts. If different metaphors and language interfere with communication, listen more deeply, honoring the Spirit in which the thought and words have their beginnings.

Queries:
Do I live in thankful awareness of God’s constant presence in my life?

Am I sensitive and obedient to the leadings of the Holy Spirit?

When do I take time for contemplation and spiritual refreshment?

What steps am I taking to center my life and to stay open to continuing revelation?

Do we share our spiritual lives with others in the Meeting, seeking to know one another in that which is eternal?

Does the Meeting provide religious education including study of the Bible and Friends’ history and practices?




After a period of worship, Meeting for Business began at 1:07 pm with 21 people present. Clerk Stephen Matchett opened with a reading from the PYM Faith & Practice, Advices & Queries for First month on “Meeting for Worship.”  We reflected on the queries in silence and with spoken ministry.
Approval of Previous Month’s Minutes

1-01: Meeting approves the minutes of December 9, 2012, as presented.

Ad Hoc Naming Committee Report
Philip Gerrie, convener of the Naming Committee, reported that no concerns had been raised regarding the nomination brought last month.

1-02: Meeting approves Sandra Schwartz to clerk the Nominating Committee through 12/31/2013.

The Naming Committee brought forward the name of Dan Nakamura as co-clerk of Nominating Committee. Meeting will season this nomination and act on it at our next meeting for business.
Kitchen Renovations Committee Report
Krista Barnard, assistant clerk of meeting, clerked this portion of the meeting since Stephen is bringing this proposal forward with Philip. Stephen Matchett, clerk, and Philip Gerrie, clerk of P&F, offered a progress report on the current construction. Current estimated completion will be the end of January 2013. Final installation of appliances will happen soon. The original renovation estimate was $44,000. Two months ago, Meeting approved an additional $25,000, based on current understanding of the increased cost to bring the project to completion.  Following a recent review of the project finances by Stephen, Philip and treasurer Amy Baker, including the remaining contractor/s bill and other miscellaneous items, Stephen can now report that the budget increase requested was too low, and that another $10,000 will be needed to complete the kitchen renovations for a total cost of $79,000.  The plan would be to draw the additional sum from the General Fund, and to replenish the fund using surplus amounts in the Roof Repair and Engineering Reserves. Amy confirmed that this will leave the General Fund with a balance of $15,000 which is within the acceptable minimum balance for that reserve. One Friend expressed discomfort with this requested adjustment and cautioned us as a meeting to be more concerned about living within our financial means moving forward.

1-03: Meeting approves up to $10,000 in additional funding for the kitchen project from the General Fund.

Rausch Street Working Group Proposal
Stephen Matchett, clerk, reminded Friends of Meeting’s minute of October encouraging the formation of a group of Friends prepared to take on management of the Rausch St. property and seeking a proposal from such a group around which Meeting could unite in order to take title to this bequest.  He reported that one such group had formed, and he called on Rolene Walker to give its report. Rolene reported on behalf of a working group consistng of herself, Philip Gerrie, Amy Baker, Tim Schwartz, Marian Chatfield Taylor, Owain Elliot, David Matchett and Dalton Tedford.

Questions the subcommittee addressed:
Should we accept the gift?
The recommendation is that the meeting should accept the gift for now. We can leave the possibility open to sell off the building in the future if need be. The current estimated value of the building is approximately $550,000.
What is needed to fix up the building?
The recommendation is to make needed repairs to the upper unit at an estimated cost of $67,000 to bring this space up to code. A contractor has provided a detailed outline of needed repairs. It was proposed that acquiring private loans from local Quakers would be possible to cover these costs.
Expenses to the meeting?
Annual income would be between $23,076 to $29,583 for rental income from both flats. Estimated annual residential expenses would be $14,500. It is estimated that the rental income will cover the expenses for taxes, insurance, and management costs.
How the space could be used?
The building is zoned for residential use at this time. The short term recommendation is to rent out the upper flat at market rate until other plans could be made. This space could be used for non-profit office space or Quaker hospitality but this will require further study and potentially a variance to the zoning.

Friends raised concerns about property tax rates going up, about the potential for higher renovation costs (considering additional expenses for foundation, basement, and first floor), and concerns about agreeing to be landlords for tenants at low rates for a long period of time.
The Clerk encouraged the working group to set a meeting at an early date where Friends could share and explore these and other concerns, and, having considered these, to bring the proposal again with any revisions to the next Meeting for Business.

Ministry & Oversight Committee
David Matchett, co-clerk, shared a report from M&O. David shared more information about the Meeting Directory which was recently published. He noted that the listings are now divided into a section showing members and attenders who live in the area and/or are active in the meeting, and another for members who are out of the area. He expressed the committee’s appreciation on Meeting’s behalf for a number of Friends, especially Jan Hartsough, Charles Martin, Adrian Card, and Jeff Mead who have been offering support for Friends in the meeting with needs that have required time and expense. David announced a workshop on February 23 to provide opportunities for Trust Building and Community Building, led by Dorothy Henderson, a Friend from Grass Valley trained in “Non Violent Communication.”  David said that the M&O Retreat Subcommittee will be looking over the tasks of organizing the annual retreat and ask people who plan to attend the retreat to take on these tasks instead of having an on-site coordinator. M&O is also seeking someone willing to serve as assistant registrar for the retreat. Requests are being made to M&O to reconsider the time of First Day meeting for Worship. Some are concerned about the added costs of parking meters and some would like the time to be earlier so it doesn’t break up the day so much. The committee would like to hear more from Friends about their preferences regarding meeting time. Several Friends shared that having meeting for worship at 10 am would be ideal since it works better for families, though this was not a uniform response.  Others expressed reservations.

Property & Finance Committee
Philip Gerrie reported on the basement. Last week small puddles of water were noticed, as from the remains of flooding. The building contractors and an engineer examined the situation and as yet did not find a source of the leak. There was a small amount of water damage to the downstairs office which will be repaired with insurance money. The P&F committee will continue looking for the source of the water. This may be related to rainwater which drains through internal plumbing.

Peace & Social Concerns Committee
Dirk von der Horst, co-clerk, reported for P&SC on three items:
The committee has reduced its meeting schedule to odd-numbered months only.
8-9 Friends viewed the film “Zero Dark Thirty” and had a discussion about military involvement in torture. Quakers are encouraged to consider faithful responses to the issues of tax funded torture through our affiliation with National Religious Coalition for the Abolition of Torture.
How do we integrate the Hartsoughs’ witness for peace (related to their role in a court trial opposing US drone policies) into our witness as a Quaker meeting? Dirk and the committee would like to hear more from Friends about their concerns regarding this situation. What should be the meeting’s witness for peace? What kinds of peace witness should we support in relationship to our Peace Testimony? (Some Friends suggested that P&SC engage this topic in a Second Hour discussion.)

After a period of announcements and sharing of joys and concerns, Meeting closed with worship at 3:30 pm with 17 people in attendance.

Respectfully submitted,

Blake Arnall, Recording Clerk                                                      Stephen Matchett, Clerk of Meeting

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Dear Friends,

This past month has flown by...and anxieties and tension are increasing as we get closer to March elections. Although our daily life isn't affected much by the elections we are hearing more and more disturbing news. Today our house helper John said he was late getting to work because a woman had been thrown off a matatu (the 14-seat passenger vans/taxis) as she didn't pay the fare collector the remaining 10 shillings she owed...less than a penny. She died when another matatu ran her over. The other passengers were so outraged they burned the vehicle and the police arrested the driver and fare collector. This happened this morning less than 2 miles from where we live. The price of lives here in Kenya seem to become incredibly cheap around election time. It's not an easy time. We're considering going to England during the election period.

Please pray with us that the Holy Spirit spread a cooling balm across this land.

In peace,
Heidi

News from Friends

February 2013 News from Ben Lomond Quaker Center

Hicksites, Orthodox, schisms – Oh, my!  Join us for the weekend of February 15-17, when author , theologian, and historian Paul Buckley offers us a close look at Elias Hicks and the Quaker Separations of the 1820s. This was a critical time in Quaker history when Elias Hicks was at the center of the controversies that resulted in the Quaker schisms of the 1820's. Hicks' ideas are still challenging today. We'll explore his advice on how to live a faithful life as we face the world's temptations and consider the relevance of his views to the Society of Friends both then and now.

Back by popular demand, Come As You Are- Reading the Bible with Friends from March 15-17. Stephen Matchett will lead us in Bible reading and discussion that creates a spiritual synergy facilitating new understandings and inspiration of these words about the Word. Even if you have struggled with biblical text in the past, you are more than welcome to join us with an open heart to hearing these words in a different light.

For more information and registration visit: http://www.quakercenter.org/programs/register/



Nonviolent Communication Workshop Saturday February 23 9AM to 4PM.

M&O is pleased to bring this workshop to the meeting in the interest of community-building and fostering better relationships and communication among meeting members and attenders. We especially encourage people involved in committee work at the meeting to attend.

Nonviolent Communication is among other things a way to hear the needs that underlie our communications with each other, such that if we can be in touch with those needs we can respond to and hear each other better.

The workshop will be led by Dorothy Henderson, who is a member of Grass Valley Meeting and has been the Head of School for the Woolman Semester at Sierra Friends Center. Here's what Dorothy has to say about the workshop:

"Living at Sierra Friends Center for the past 13 years, I have been learning, practicing and teaching Nonviolent Communication as taught by Marshall Rosenberg. Increasingly I have come to value the ways in which NVC illuminates and facilitates my Quaker faith and practice. In this workshop my objective is to share the simple tools of NVC and how I see them applicable to our work for peace and justice in the world, beginning with peace and justice among Friends. It has been my experience that this deceptively simple tool challenges us to fully engage with our belief as Quakers that there is that of God in all beings. I believe our time together has the potential to make the practice of our faith more real and available.
"We will have two sessions. In the morning there will be an introduction to NVC as it helps us to listen deeply to the still voice within. In the afternoon, we will work with the ways NVC can help us hear that of God in others and speak our truth in ways that they can hopefully hear. In both sessions there will be some didactic and much practice. The practice may consist of role plays, dyads, small groups and/or written exercises.
"This is just a dipping of our toes into a profound pool. I look forward to a rich and rewarding experience with all of you."

Please let David Matchett know by Sunday February 17 if you would like to attend. Also please let David know if you have a need for child care. Lunch will be brown bag, or available from the deli next door.


Pacific Yearly Meeting

The upcoming Pacific Yearly Meeting session will be July 29 - Aug 3, 2013, at Mount Madonna Center, in Watsonville CA

The upcoming College Park Quarterly Meeting sessions will be May 17 - 19 at Ben Lomond Quaker Center and October 18 - 20 at Sierra Friends Center





Google Groups for SF Quakers
This is the group to send your late breaking announcements or share other news with the meeting community. You can sign up via the web: http://groups.google.com/group/sfquakers. You will need to create a free Google user ID and password, if you don’t already have one.

Visit http://groups.google.com/group/sfquakers/about to join or learn more.

A group for young adult Friends in San Francisco is at http://groups.google.com/group/youngsfmeeting

A group for parents in the San Francisco Meeting is at http://groups.google.com/group/sf-crec-parents

A Google Group for Bay Area Quakers is now available at http://groups.google.com/group/bayareaquakers. The group is for Bay Area Quaker meetings, churches, and organizations, as well as individual Friends, to share news of events and activities that would be of interest to Quakers and the general public. Events do not need to be strictly Quaker. For more information, contact Tom Yamaguchi, tomyamaguchi@mac.com
Help on using Google Groups is also available at:



Submissions to the newsletter are due by the next-to-last First Day (Sunday) of each month in the News Committee mailbox at the meetinghouse, or by e-mail to news@sfquakers.org. This newsletter is also available for reading or downloading on our website at http://www.sfquakers.org/news.html.
Members of the News Committee are Kate McCarley (clerk, editor), Eli Bishop (web servant), Jim Pilliod (production), and Noel Schwerin (distribution)


(all events at 65 9th St., unless noted; *see details elsewhere in newsletter)
Sunday
Monday
Tuesday
Wednesday
Thursday
Friday
Saturday
27

11a Meeting for Worship

28





29





30


6p Meeting for Worship
31



12p Peace Vigil

7p Potluck & Quaker Study
1

2

10:30a-1p Food Pantry

3
9:30a Bible Study

11a Meeting for Worship, Community potluck following

4




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5




7p Property & Finance Mtg
6
8:30a SFFS Community Mtg for Worship†
6p Meeting for Worship
7p Ministry & Oversight Mtg
7



12p Peace Vigil

7p Potluck & Quaker Study
8
9

10:30a-1p Food Pantry
10
11a Meeting for Worship
1p Meeting for Business
11
12
13


6p Meeting for Worship
14
12p Peace Vigil

7p Potluck & Quaker Study
15

16

10:30a-1p Food Pantry
17
9:30a Bible Study

11a Meeting for Worship
18
19
20


6p Meeting for Worship
21

12p Peace Vigil

7p Potluck & Quaker Study
22

23
10:30a-1p Food Pantry
9a-4p Non-Violent Communication Workshop
24
11a Meeting for Worship
25



26

27


6p Meeting for Worship
28

12p Peace Vigil

7p Potluck & Quaker Study
1
2

10:30a-1p Food Pantry

‡Federal Building, Golden Gate Ave. and Larkin St. †San Francisco Friends School, 250 Valencia St.

Tuesday, December 25, 2012

January (First Month) 2013 Newsletter


     


January 2013 Newsletter
(First Month)


Meeting for Worship
& First Day School
Sundays at 11:00 a.m.
Midweek Meeting for Worship, Wednesdays at 6:00 p.m.
 






Advices:
The heart of the Religious Society of Friends is the Meeting for Worship. In direct communion with God, we offer ourselves for God’s will. Our daily lives are linked with the Meeting for Worship, the Meeting for Worship with our daily lives.

Come regularly to Meeting for Worship, even when you are angry, tired, or spiritually cold. Bring your joys and your hurts, and the needs of other people. Accept and support each other in the community where God dwells among us. As you do so, you may find the grace of prayer.

At times the Spirit may prompt you to speak in Meeting. Wait patiently to know that the sense and the time are right. When you are sure, have confidence that the words will be given to you. Listen to the ministry of others with an open spirit. If it is not God’s word for you, it may be for others. After a message has been given, allow time to ponder its meaning and to let the Meeting return to silent worship. In speech and in silence, each person contributes to the Meeting.

Queries:
Do I come to Meeting with heart and mind prepared for worship?

In both silent and vocal ministry, do I respond to the leadings of the Holy Spirit, without pre-arrangement and in simplicity and truth?

Am I careful not to speak at undue length or beyond personal spiritual experience?

Do we meet in expectant waiting for the promptings of the Divine Spirit?
Are we drawn together in a living silence by the power of God in our midst?





After a period of worship, Meeting for Business began at 1:04 pm with 20 people present. The clerk opened with a reading from the PYM Faith & Practice Advices & Queries for Twelfth month on “The Meeting Community.”  We reflected on the queries in silence.
Approval of Previous Month’s Minutes
12-01: Meeting approves the minutes of November 11, 2012, as presented.
Ad Hoc Naming Committee Report
Philip Gerrie, convenor, shared a report of the Naming Committee. No concerns were raised regarding the nominations brought last month.
12-02: Meeting approves the following appointments to the Nominating Committee:  Arthur Koch, through 12/31/2013; and David Ackerly, Anne Collins and Kate Frankel through 12/31/2014.
The Naming Committee nominates Sandra Schwartz to serve as clerk of the Nominating Committee through 12/31/2013. We will season this nomination for one month.
Property & Finance Committee – 2013 Budget
Amy Baker, meeting treasurer, presented minor adjustments to the proposed budget for 2013. (Copy of revised proposal attached to archive copy of these minutes.)  The Property & Finance Committee will slightly increase rates for rentals of the meeting space downstairs which will increase our annual income, allowing a reduction in the proposed draw on the general fund. The budget also includes two new annual contributions of $100 each requested by Peace & Social Concerns Committee to support programs in Guatemala and El Salvador which are sponsored by Redwood Forest and Palo Alto Friends Meetings.
12-03: Meeting approves the proposed 2013 budget with revisions presented today.
Ministry & Oversight Committee
Chad Stephenson, co-clerk, shared a report from M&O. There will be a Meeting for Worship at 11 am on Dec. 25th with potluck to follow. Additionally there will be a Meeting for Worship on January 1st, 2013. Introduction to Meeting for Worship will be held in the Library during renovations. The M&O Retreats Subcommittee will meet next month to take the current job description for the annual Meeting retreat on-site coordinator and explore ways to turn these duties into a variety of responsibilities which can be shared among retreat attenders instead of a single coordinator. The subcommittee would recruit Retreat registrants each year to carry out these tasks.
Property & Finance Committee (contd.)
Philip Gerrie, committee clerk, gave an update on the ongoing renovations in the kitchen and in the AFSC offices upstairs, both scheduled to be completed this month. This is the first renovation of the upstairs offices in over 15 years. In addition, the meeting room floor is scheduled to be sanded and re-sealed on Dec. 26th. Room 3 has been renovated and the new tenant, the Center for Lao Studies, has moved in. P&F recently completed a performance review for the Building Manager, the first in eight years.  The committee intends to undertake this task annually from now on.
Peace & Social Concerns Committee
Dirk von der Horst, co-clerk,  reported for P&SC. The committee is willing to co-sponsor Occupy Forums in the future when space is available in the meeting room. The committee endorses the 99% Coalition’s call to oppose the National Defense Authorization Act, which allows for individuals to be imprisoned without due process when related to national security concerns. The committee is discussing ways to support those who participate in the Pay Under Protest program which highlights War Tax Resistance efforts. The regular meeting of the committee is the Wednesday before meeting for business.
Philip Gerrie offered an update on the Food Pantry.  Food Runners is now offering additional donated food to our program from Whole Foods and Trader Joe’s.  With the assistance of Food Bank staff, the pantry recently made the switch to a client registration and time-slot system which has eliminated long waits in line.  There are sufficient volunteers to staff the pantry each week, however currently only two Meeting coordinators: Paula Joyce and Philip. The committee is asking for Meeting volunteers to step forward to be trained and serve as a Food Pantry coordinator. Philip will email the coordinator job description and time commitments to the Google group list.
Rausch Street Update
Stephen Matchett, clerk, read aloud the section of the minutes of November’s meeting for business concerning the Rausch Street property.  He reported that the group of interested individuals identified there are planning to meet in early January.  He noted that the trust administrators are so far exerting no pressure on us to reach a decision by a certain date whether to take title to the property.
After a period of announcements and sharing of joys and concerns, Meeting closed with worship at 2:27 pm with 19 people in attendance.
Respectfully submitted,
Blake Arnall, Recording Clerk                                                      Stephen Matchett, Clerk of Meeting
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Dear Friends,

Happy Christmas! I've been excited about the holidays coming up as we have really good friends from Pretoria Quaker Worship Group coming to spend Christmas on the coast together.

Things have been rolling along easily in work and home over the last month. However, as some of you may have read, there has been a large increase in violence in the East part of Nairobi where many Somali refugees live. There have been bombs and a market was looted. We've had many AVP workshops there, funded by the Mennonite Church. At our most recent facilitator meeting we heard that some of our AVP facilitators have been called to help defuse the violence and tension in the aftermath of some of the bombings.

Two weeks ago we had some of the worst traffic snarls I've ever experienced, when all the public transport went on strike to protest new traffic laws. Among the many convoluted new laws is one that says any driver held responsible for killing a pedestrian will automatically get a life sentence in jail. The culture of impunity keeps getting codified.
Again, please pray for our safety and well-being and for peace to prevail in this country sundered by corruption and violence.

May your New Year feel blessed by the gift of God's consistent care and love.

Love,
Heidi

News from Friends

January 2013 News from Ben Lomond Quaker Center

Our full 2013 program schedule is now available as a downloadable PDF file at www.quakercenter.org. Do you want to suggest a program for 2014? Now's the time! Email us at mail@quakercenter.org if you have a great program idea for Friends and fellow travelers.

Join us from January 25-27 when Quaker author, Brent Bill, will lead a provocative program,  A Modest Proposal: Participating in God's Future for Friends. 30,000 people a day try belief.net's Belief-O-Matic and, according to Newsweek, a disproportionate number of them learn that their beliefs fit the description of a liberal Quaker. Why aren't our Quaker meetinghouses bursting with newcomers? Join us a time of spiritual reflection and idea generation around this question. 

During the weekend of February 15-17, we'll have a close look at a critical time in Quaker history when Elias Hicks was at the center of the controversies that resulted in the Quaker schisms of the 1820's. Hicks' ideas are still challenging today. We will explore his advice on how to live a faithful life as we face the world's temptations and consider the significance of his views to the Society of Friends (both then and now) and to ourselves. Join us and author, theologian and historian Paul Buckley for Elias Hicks and the Quaker Separations of the 1820s.

For more information and registration visit: http://www.quakercenter.org/programs/register/



MARK YOUR CALENDAR for Saturday, February 23, 2013, when Ministry & Oversight Committee is sponsoring an all day workshop in Nonviolent Communication, led by Dorothy Henderson of Grass Valley Meeting.  For everyone in Meeting interested in building and strengthening the beloved community.  How do we keep our loving connection with one another, even (especially) when experiencing conflict?  Please plan to come to what is sure to be a valuable and rewarding session.  And it's free!  More details in next month's newsletter.

Social Transformation Using the Three-Fold Path Workshop
Saturday, January 19, 2013
9:30 am - 3:30 pm
Church for the Fellowship of All Peoples
2041 Larkin Street (near Vallejo), San Francisco.
T
he Three Fold Path to Social Change:
Personal Development, Alternative Communities, and Civic Engagement.
Efforts in each of these three areas reinforce the others. The stronger we are as individuals, the more we contribute to our communities and effective civic engagement. Strong communities nurture strong individuals and provide a foundation for effective civic engagement. Effective civic engagement enhances personal strength and builds social infrastructure.

Do you want to: 1) Work on your personal development; 2) organize to impact public policy; or 3) help build new, sustainable communities?

If so, we invite you to celebrate MLK weekend by joining us as we explore the Gandhi-King holistic Three-Fold Approach to organizing and social change.

The event will feature a panel discussion, small group discussions and networking opportunities.


The event is co-sponsored by Church for Fellowship of All Peoples, Occupy Be the Change Caucus and the Positive Peace Warrior Network.

For more information, email ThreeFoldPath2013@gmail.com or call (415) 776-4910.

Speakers include:
Rev. Dorsey Blake (Church for Fellowship of All Peoples)

Panelists include:
Brenda Salgado (Movement Strategy Center)
Kazu Haga (Positive Peace Warrior Network)
Mary Lim Lampe (GENESIS)
HOW TO GET THERE
Muni Lines 19, 41, 45, 47, and 49.
Driving - Parking is very difficult to find in this area. If you are driving, please plan to arrive early to look for street parking.


Pacific Yearly Meeting

The upcoming Pacific Yearly Meeting session will be July 29 - Aug 3, 2013, at Mount Madonna Center, in Watsonville CA


College Park Quarterly Meeting

COLLEGE PARK QUARTERLY MEETING 
First Month 19, 2013, at Palo Alto Friends Meetinghouse 


The theme for our day may be about generations of Friends -- and regeneration, whatever our ages.  We will hear a presentation on the Quaker Youth Pilgrimage, on “green” burial options, and our annual report from Friends House in Santa Rosa. 


Pre-registration is not required for adults.  On-site registration will begin at 8:00 am.  We will begin our Meeting with Family Worship at 9:00 am and end with Closing Worship at 5:00 pm.  Fees will be $15 for adults and $5 for children and teens.  Saturday evening we will offer takeout Chinese food (extra charge) and extended fellowship at the Meetinghouse. 

Teens age 13 and older are invited, not only for winter quarterly daytime sessions (at the $5 rate), but also to spend Saturday night at the Palo Alto Meetinghouse as an extension of the winter teen program.  All parents of teens need to fill out and send registration paperwork (download from http://collegepark.quaker.org/ ) and adult sponsorship forms for teens attending without parents.  In order to attend the overnight program, all parents of teens must send registration forms with a check for $15 - $25 made out to CPQM and postmarked by Thursday, January 10 to Kathy Runyan, PO Box 1009, Ben Lomond, CA 95005 

For additional details see the CPQM website: www.collegepark.quaker.org  or contact clerk Eric Moon, emoon@afsc.org, 510-604-3162


For information on overnight hospitality for adults, transportation or accessibility needs contact:  Eric Sabelman,eesabelman@gmail.com, 650-322-2455
Teen Program and overnight at the Meetinghouse: Kathy Runyan, kathyrunyan@hotmail.com, 530-635-0962 
Children's Program: Delcy Steffy, delcysteffy@gmail.com, 916-529-7455 
Registrar: Sandy Kewman, srosekewman@gmail.com, 530-559-9850 
CPQM Clerk: Eric Moon, emoon@afsc.org, 510-604-3162  
For interest group requests: Assistant Clerk Jan Turner, yellowgateroad@gmail.com, 707-845-0896 

·      Carpooling or use of public transit is encouraged.  (see other side) 
·      Registration begins at 8:00 a.m.  We will conclude the day’s program about 5:00 pm, after Closing Worship --  with an optional evening meal and an optional overnight for the teens (details below).
·      Lunch with vegetarian and non-dairy options will be provided,  If you have other needs, you may wish to supplement or provide your own food – or contact Eric Sabelman, above..
·      Emergency calls for CPQM attenders on that Saturday, January 19: 650-856-0744 (Palo Alto FM phone) 
·      Children/Teen Program Information
o   Teens 13 and older are invited to spend Saturday night at the Palo Alto Meetinghouse as an extension of the teen program.  Teens (or their parents) should contact Kathy Runyan (contact information above) by Januarry 10 if they are coming to Quarterly Meeting.
o   For Children’s Program, parents should bring along a completed CPQM release form, or be ready to fill one out at registration. 

Directions


Palo Alto Meetinghouse, 957 Colorado Avenue, Palo Alto  94303+

From Highway 101, take the Embarcadero Road / Oregon Expressway off-ramp west and follow the signs for Oregon Expressway. After about half a mile, turn left onto Greer Road.  After another half mile, turn right onto Colorado Avenue.  The Meetinghouse is about two blocks on the right side.  From Highway 280, take Page Mill Road east; it becomes Oregon Expressway; turn right onto Louis Avenue, then left onto Colorado. 

Carpooling:  If you are driving and can offer space, or if you would like a ride and want to know who may be driving from your area, ask if your Meeting has a CPQM contact, or consult registrar Sandy Kewman no later than Sunday, Jan. 13

Public transportation options include Sonoma County Airport Express from Marin and Sonoma Counties to San Francisco Airport http://airportexpressinc.com/  Arrange a pickup through Eric Sabelman.

The nearest Bay Area Rapid Transit (BART) terminal is Millbrae (near SFO); for schedules, fares and parking information go towww.bart.gov or call (415)989-BART. 

CalTrain from San Francisco or San Jose stops at Palo Alto Station; schedule and fare information at www.caltrain.com or 1-800-660-4287

Coming from San Jose area:  Take CalTrain #423.  www.caltrain.com  Get off at California Avenue station, about a mile from Palo Alto Meeting.  You can take a taxi, or walk, or arrange with Eric Sabelman in advance be picked up. eesabelman@gmail.com, 650-322-2455 

Coming from Santa Cruz County:  Take Santa Cruz MTD Amtrak Highway 17 Express.  Bus leaves Santa Cruz Metro Center at 6:40 am; leaves Scotts Valley 15 minutes later. 
http://www.scmtd.com/en/routes/schedules/systemschedule/17/20132?dir=1&schedule=6
At Diridon Station in San Jose, get off bus, take CalTrain #423 as above. 

To  arrange to be picked up from BART or CalTrain terminals, contact Eric Sabelman no later than Sunday, Jan. 13

Youth Program Coordinator Epistle VII December 2012

Dear Pacific Yearly Meeting Friends,

Winter greetings. I’m writing now to share how we of many ages in our Yearly Meeting have been traveling together through these seasons of renewal. Since my epistle last Spring, I’ve continued visiting Meetings and serving as a resource for the planning committees of our Quarterly Meetings, Junior Yearly Meeting (JYM), and local events such as the fall Harvest Festival in Palo Alto and the upcoming Spring Youth Work Camp at Quaker Oaks Farm.
I’ve especially concentrated on extended visits to Southern California Quarterly Meeting:

In March, I visited San Diego and La Jolla Meetings in conjunction with the PYM Representative Committee Meeting. In April, I attended the SCQM Spring Gathering in Riverside, CA and its service project to clean up the land at Inland Valley Meeting’s future site. I then visited and worshiped with Friends at Inland Valley, La Jolla, Orange County, Orange Grove, Santa Monica, Marloma Long Beach, and Conejo Valley.

In the summer, I visited Santa Barbara Meeting and proceeded down to La Jolla for the first annual Peace Action Camp, a new Quaker Center camp that trains teens in nonviolent direct action and community organizing; Jim Summers and Mary Klein of our Youth Program Committee also helped Stephen Myers (Quaker Center Camps Director and JYM Adult Clerk) run the camp, which will again be held in La Jolla in July 2013.

In the fall, I was able to visit Las Vegas and Claremont, and to participate in the SCQM Clerk’s Meeting. Fall Fellowship at Temescal Canyon was beautiful, not only in weather and landscape, but also in the ways that SCQM is nurturing gifts and relationships among its age groups: one plenary session included a teen and adult panelists on the topic of “Creating the Meeting You Want to Belong To,” and teen clerks led an activity for all that they had learned in a clerking workshop at Quaker Center. I offered a interest group there on “Becoming an Adult Ally to Youth,” in which Friends explored what it has meant in their own lives to have (or not have) allies and to act as an ally; we then shared ideas for an action we each could take toward supporting Quaker youth.
Similarly, College Park Quarter continues to experiment with ways to strike a balance between intergenerational and age-divided activity. The CPQM teen program’s adult committee hosted an all-ages plenary in the Fall in which children, teens, and adults were taken on a progressive guided visualization of the passion they had/have/might-have as a teenager and then asked
to share with “a person of a different decade.” After multiple rounds, participants had met and shared stories with a number Friends they hadn’t known well before. Afterwards, many talked of (re)connecting with a fire within.

Exciting progress continues to happen with the support of our Youth Program. JYM was enriched by a full set of experienced Friendly Adult Presences (FAPs) at the Annual Gathering, many of whom had attended one of our FAP workshops in the last two years. Both Quarterly Meetings also found plenty of adult volunteers for their Fall gatherings and benefited from continued growth in youth leadership. FAPs are super-important to our ability to host safe events for teens, and serving as a FAP can be a lot of fun: you get to meet some wonderful Friends and participate in program activities as well.
Being an adult ally to youth, though, goes way beyond ‘just’ serving as a chaperon. There are many other ways that Friends are supporting youth besides volunteering to hang out all day or night with them. Committees, workgroups, and logistical support are also critical
for making programs possible. For example, eleven Friends (adults and teens) from six Meetings are working together to create a new event, the Spring Youth Work Camp at Quaker Oaks Farm in Visalia this coming March, with the support of our Youth Program and PYM’s Unity With Nature Committee. The camp’s theme is “Land Use and Sustainability” and will include building an outdoor amphitheater, rebuilding a sweat lodge with youth from the local Wukchumni tribe, taking field trips nearby, and learning about local land use issues. Friends also act as allies to youth by making sure they know about upcoming events, showing them how to register, helping them through the process of asking for financial support, coordinating transportation, or acting as sponsors for minors who attend events without their parents/ guardians. Friends donate to scholarship funds for youth to attend gatherings or to support the youth programs at Sierra Friends Center / Woolman, Quaker Center, AFSC, FCNL, and FCLCA. And Friends act as allies in their own Meetings simply by greeting the children, teens, and young adults by name, or by having authentic two-way conversations about each other’s ongoing spiritual and worldly journeys.

Be on the lookout for announcements soon about two Adult Ally / FAP Workshops that we will be offering in April 2013, one in Sacramento and one in the Los Angeles area. In the workshop, participants learn from the experiences of other Friends and about best practices and resources to support youth, promote youth leadership, and develop appropriate adult- youth relationships.

We continue to publish regularly in Western Friend and are encouraging youth to make submissions. The recent November issue includes two such articles: one is a report co- authored by teen Brooke Lyons-Justus (Strawberry Creek) with adult Elizabeth Boardman (Davis), describing their experiences of the August “Seeking Spirit All Together” Workshop at Quaker Center that was co-facilitated by Nate Secrest and me; the other is by JYM Co-Clerks Clare Griese (La Jolla), Emma Castanedo (La Jolla), and Augie Brinker (Santa Cruz), reporting about their service project at Petaluma Bounty Farm and plans for the coming year. In related news, Mary Klein (Palo Alto), who serves on our YPC Supervisory Committee, has been named the new Editor/Executive Director of Western Friend! I look forward to working closely with Mary as we build on the strong foundation laid by Kathy Hyzy and the Western Friend Board to expand the ways we amplify youth voices and reach young ears and eyes throughout the West.

At PYM’s 2012 Annual Session, our Youth Program Coordinator experimental period was extended through September 2013 to give us time to more fully implement the program and evaluate its impacts. Our committee is currently conducting a thorough and deliberate evaluation of the program, which we will first present to Representative Committee in March and then to PYM’s Annual Session in July/August 2013. At the moment, we are grateful to be working with your Meetings and Worship groups across California and Nevada in discerning how to continue supporting youth and intergenerational community into the future. Please make sure your Meeting or Worship Group has received the set of queries we emailed to clerks and representatives in November for you to collectively consider and respond to by February 1st (email responses to Lanny Jay, Redwood Forest, landbird@comcast.net). Online at: http://www.pacificyearlymeeting.org/2012/pym-docs/ypc/evaluation-queries-nov2012/.

Meanwhile, we have conducted two focus groups with teens and FAPs (one at each Fall Quarterly Meeting) to evaluate our program, and we are interviewing a number of individual Friends. As always, we welcome your ideas, so feel free to send them to me or your favorite, friendly neighborhood Youth Program Committee member, including Cara Arcuni, Elizabeth Boardman, Clare Griese, Lanny Jay, Mary Klein, Steve Leeds, Jim Summers, Kate Watkins (Clerk), and Nathan Walker.

In this season of reflection, I recommend you to further reading about our program. To learn more about our accomplishments in the past year, go to our July 2012 annual report at: http:// www.pacificyearlymeeting.org/2012/pym-docs/ypc/ypc-joint-report-to-2012-pym/. And to learn about our exciting new Spring Youth Work Camp, please see: http://www.pacificyearlymeeting.org/ 2012/pym-docs/ypc/spring-youth-work-camp-2013/.
Wishing you peace, joy, and harmony,

~ Alyssa
Alyssa Nelson, Youth Program Coordinator, Pacific Yearly Meeting (530) 563-6369 (cell) / pym.youthcoordinator@gmail.com
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2012-2013 Ongoing Calendar of Events (updated 12/13/12)

Intergenerational and youth-focused activities in PYM and beyond 

Email pym.youthcoordinator@gmail.com to have youth events included on the PYM calendar.

http://www.pacificyearlymeeting.org/events/

Please support teens and young adults in your area to attend events by helping them register, figure out payment and/or scholarships, and arrange transportation.







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